第4話 待客之道

　　{"body":[{"id":"45987601911887971","sort":"4096","type":1,"role":"45942053800488863","content":"蓬門今始為君開。"},{"id":"45987604344571265","sort":"5120","type":1,"role":"45942053800488863","content":"超然去鄭家做客，得到長輩們的一致贊賞。"},{"id":"45987606492064990","sort":"6144","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"小發(fā)，令尊非常和藹可親呀！"},{"id":"45987607834231717","sort":"7168","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"平時對我可嚴了！"},{"id":"45987609444847361","sort":"8192","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"說明，你父親非常器重你！"},{"id":"45987700964562798","sort":"9216","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我的哥哥們都很出眾，可能就我差一些。"},{"id":"45987703648920315","sort":"10240","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"別老是說自己不行。"},{"id":"45987705007867221","sort":"11264","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你看，你來做客，我家長輩都夸獎你。"},{"id":"45987706333274041","sort":"12288","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"你來我家，不是也一樣嗎？"},{"id":"45987707407019965","sort":"13312","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"那是你家人客氣。"},{"id":"45987709017623405","sort":"14336","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"不過，我發(fā)現(xiàn)了一個秘密。"},{"id":"45987710376577254","sort":"15360","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"什么秘密呀？"},{"id":"45987711718754759","sort":"16384","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你的待客和做客之道挺好的，能不能分享一下？"},{"id":"45987713060932846","sort":"17408","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"你還別說，這可是曾經(jīng)老師親自教的。"},{"id":"45987715460076248","sort":"18432","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"開小灶？"},{"id":"45987716819030148","sort":"19456","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"不是。"},{"id":"45987718161207758","sort":"20480","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"是去錢前鐸他家玩時，他父母請老師教的，我是順便跟著學(xué)會的。"},{"id":"45987719486609033","sort":"21504","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"那就分享分享。"},{"id":"45987720828786582","sort":"23552","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"到別人家做客，一定要有禮貌地尊重對方。"},{"id":"45987721902528705","sort":"24576","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你今天做得非常好。"},{"id":"45987723798353537","sort":"25600","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"去別人家做客時，要有禮貌地敲門，"},{"id":"45987724872095560","sort":"26624","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"對方回應(yīng)后，應(yīng)當(dāng)靜候在門口等待，直到主人開門。"},{"id":"45987726197496770","sort":"28672","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你的做法讓長輩贊揚。"},{"id":"45987727539674846","sort":"30720","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"如果，需要脫鞋，按主人的意愿將脫下的鞋子擺放好。"},{"id":"45987728881844584","sort":"31744","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我家就是比較麻煩，不過你做得到位。"},{"id":"45987730240806073","sort":"32768","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"受到熱情招待時，提醒自己要馬上說謝謝。"},{"id":"45987735592740768","sort":"33792","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987735609516890"},{"id":"45987736683259976","sort":"34816","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"想在主人家玩耍時，一定要經(jīng)過主人同意，玩后要表示感謝。"},{"id":"45987739082403377","sort":"35840","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987739099179507"},{"id":"45987742840500476","sort":"36864","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"離開前，要對主人說再見。"},{"id":"45987745256420624","sort":"37888","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"做客之道，你做得很好!"},{"id":"45987746883809859","sort":"38912","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"待客之道呢？"},{"id":"45987747957552026","sort":"39936","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"待客一定要有禮貌地尊重對方。"},{"id":"45987749299729729","sort":"40960","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你平時就做得特別好。"},{"id":"45987752235730587","sort":"43008","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"有客人敲自己房間的門時，要以有禮貌的方式問詢，"},{"id":"45987753594688398","sort":"44032","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"如說：“請問是哪位？”“有何貴干？”……"},{"id":"45987758694961439","sort":"45056","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987758694961437"},{"id":"45987758963396963","sort":"46080","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"大門有門頭，我們只管自己的。"},{"id":"45987762989929669","sort":"47104","type":2,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"45987762973153607"},{"id":"45987763510024584","sort":"48128","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"客人到訪后，要彬彬有禮地、主動親切地與客人打招呼和問好。"},{"id":"45987765120638621","sort":"49152","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我家長輩就說我太緊張，看來要大方些。"},{"id":"45987766999693577","sort":"50176","type":2,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"45987767016469575"},{"id":"45987768073424157","sort":"51200","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"客人落座后，要學(xué)會主動親切地、簡單地招待客人，"},{"id":"45987769415606746","sort":"52224","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"如擺茶杯、端水、倒茶、拿水果、拿點心等。"},{"id":"45987770489348841","sort":"53248","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"有仆役的就不用吧？"},{"id":"45987772099961929","sort":"54272","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你是世家的，應(yīng)該不做吧？"},{"id":"45987775069528710","sort":"55296","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"看各自家規(guī)和場合。"},{"id":"45987776126494796","sort":"56320","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"熟人可以自在做一些。"},{"id":"45987777753883797","sort":"57344","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"增進親和感。"},{"id":"45987779616156332","sort":"58368","type":2,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"45987779632932334"},{"id":"45987782032079651","sort":"59392","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"在大人和客人交談時，要明白人和人交談時需保持安靜，這樣做才是有禮貌的。"},{"id":"45987783374246564","sort":"60416","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"隨意地來回走動，或者不打招呼就離開，或者隨便插話等，都是對客人的不尊重。"},{"id":"45987785270076605","sort":"61440","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"平時我也這么做。"},{"id":"45987786595481731","sort":"62464","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"客人即將離開時，應(yīng)該一同送客，"},{"id":"45987787937659345","sort":"63488","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"如果不方便，可以主動提前打招呼離開。"},{"id":"45987790370354884","sort":"64512","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"大概就這些簡單的禮儀。"},{"id":"45987794128452106","sort":"65536","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987794111676157"},{"id":"45987794380111682","sort":"66560","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"這么做是挺大方和優(yōu)雅的。"},{"id":"45987795470629632","sort":"67584","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"小發(fā)，不要總是懷疑自己。"},{"id":"45987796812807405","sort":"68608","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"剛才你說的這些，本來我差不多也在做，大部分也知道。"},{"id":"45987798138193604","sort":"69632","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"為什么沒有自信呢？"},{"id":"45987800017247813","sort":"70656","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"可能是，哥哥們都太強大了。"},{"id":"45987801376206879","sort":"71680","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"你不要活在他們的陰影下。"},{"id":"45987803255258033","sort":"72704","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987803238465713"},{"id":"45987804597435581","sort":"73728","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你是世家身份，哥哥們都是名列前茅，為什么你不會像我？"},{"id":"45987805922820791","sort":"74752","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"不給自己壓力，不被壓力所擾。"},{"id":"45987806728127398","sort":"75776","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"咱們還很小呀！"},{"id":"45987807801869446","sort":"76800","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你難道不怕長輩的責(zé)難？"},{"id":"45987809429258426","sort":"77824","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"你知道他們?yōu)槟愫?，自然不會怕?},{"id":"45987810771435918","sort":"78848","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"是對長輩的信任嗎？"},{"id":"45987813439016985","sort":"79872","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"君子存誠，相信長輩真的對自己好，就不會怕！"},{"id":"45987814512763484","sort":"80896","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我難道不相信長輩嗎？"},{"id":"45987815586510644","sort":"81920","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"不能說不相信，只是自己過分自謙和懦弱了點。"},{"id":"45987816677016370","sort":"82944","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"你說得直接，我要改變。"},{"id":"45987818002419652","sort":"83968","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"未來的神辨世界，靠我們繼承，"},{"id":"45987819344597212","sort":"84992","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"雖然有壓力，但是不要忘記超然的品質(zhì)。"},{"id":"45987820435115202","sort":"86016","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我以后跟著你去做！"},{"id":"45987821508857293","sort":"87040","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"咱們慢慢長大了，應(yīng)該共同去維護世界。"},{"id":"45987822834258949","sort":"88064","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"跟你在一起，很踏實。"},{"id":"45987823924776836","sort":"89088","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"你突破了自己，我們都會發(fā)光發(fā)熱。"},{"id":"45987825803825474","sort":"90112","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"是需要獨立？"},{"id":"45987826877567463","sort":"91136","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"小發(fā)，本身你挺獨立，只是待人方面需要突破。"},{"id":"45987827934533611","sort":"92160","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"我明白了，以后一定改過來。"},{"id":"45987829025051791","sort":"93184","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"過幾天就要出發(fā)，去中唐國參加考前培訓(xùn)了。"},{"id":"45987830618891217","sort":"94208","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"要不要明后天我們?nèi)バ△燃?，問問她有沒有準備好？"},{"id":"45987831961072488","sort":"95232","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"她太嬌貴了，咱們要好好幫幫她。"},{"id":"45987833571675378","sort":"96256","type":2,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"45987833588451234"},{"id":"45987835450729680","sort":"97280","type":1,"role":"45942097001815168","content":"需要變得樸實自立！"},{"id":"45987836004376583","sort":"98304","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"今天就這樣吧！"},{"id":"45987836792907305","sort":"99328","type":1,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"我和令尊打個招呼，該打道回府咯！"},{"id":"45987837614989708","sort":"100352","type":1,"role":"45942053800488863","content":"鄭發(fā)戀戀不舍送超然離開鄭府······"},{"id":"45987839225602897","sort":"101376","type":2,"role":"45942053800488863","content":"45987839208827034"},{"id":"46007315828550852","sort":"22528","type":2,"role":"45942084116909318","content":"46007315811777365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